LOS ANGELES, CA / ACCESSWIRE / February 5, 2021 / Matchmakers are becoming a thing of the past for successful men. A growing number of wealthy bachelors are "swiping left" on traditional matchmakers in favor of a new, technical solution that saves both time and energy. Jesse Jhaj, the dating expert that successful men around the world are talking about, founded a new bespoke dating service for what he calls "Unicorn Men."
What in the World are "Unicorn Men"
The term Unicorn comes from those exceptionally rare startups that achieve billion-dollar valuations, like Airbnb or Dropbox. Jhaj explains that Unicorn Men are individuals who have achieved success in three major aspects of their life - wealth, health, and relationships. He calls this the "Unicorn Trifecta."
For a man to achieve Unicorn status requires an obsession with self-development that most people do not have. According to Jesse Jhaj, there are a lot of guys who seem to have their wealth and health together but tend to fall short in how to communicate as a high-value man to women.
"Traditional dating takes up a lot of time. Whether you're swiping on dating apps, hosting parties, or going to bars, there's going to be a big-time commitment," Jhaj says. "Time that millionaires don't have. So what ends up happening? They settle - sometimes without even realizing that they're settling until much later in life. Think about that… divorce rates are just so high. Why? It's because of two reasons: one - most men and women haven't done enough dating experience to recognize toxic versus healthy behaviors, and two - they don't really know what they truly want in a partner yet." And that's exactly what Jhaj and his team set out to fix with their new dating system.
At least, that's the idea - but why do Millionaires need a team like JDS & Associates (Jesse Jhaj's company) over a traditional matchmaker?
Why Matchmakers and Unicorn Men Don't Get Along
One of the biggest frustrations Matchmakers have is that their clients are "too picky." In fact, in an interview with professional matchmaker Greta Tufvesson, Tufvesson remarked that "we want to make sure people have realistic expectations." Most millionaires would scoff at this idea: after all, their self-made fortunes came in direct opposition to having realistic expectations. Why shouldn't their relationships be just as spectacular?
Most matchmaking services only set up 6 to 12 matches a year, so it can be difficult to find the right partner. Kevin, a former Wall Street executive who had invested $100,000 on a matchmaker in 2019, wasn't happy with the results he got. "It felt like the matchmaker I hired was spending more time trying to get me to settle rather than finding me the perfect match. She literally spent hours and hours trying to sell me on these women that I just wasn't attracted to. I don't want to be convinced that I should meet someone who I don't feel physically attracted to."
The Internet is littered with thousands of reviews from men complaining about dropping $10,000+ on matchmaking services only to have been presented with a stream of matches that are far from soulmate quality. Matchmakers don't seem to have pools of options that are large enough to provide many choices for both Unicorn Men and Women. Kevin commented, "The professional I hired probably had a list of names in a database somewhere. Who knows how long some of those names were on that list for. One match she linked me up with said she was sourced through a Sugar Baby website. It was super embarrassing."
So why are matchmakers missing the mark here? Part of the problem comes from the fact that these hyper-selective Unicorns live in another world. The median salary of matchmakers is only $49,000 - but it's not just about the money gap that creates the reality disparity. Many of these ultra-successful clients just have higher standards than most can even imagine or empathize with. The reason Jesse Jhaj and his team continue to be hired by them is because he's from their world and "he just gets it."
A Problem of Time
With millions of attractive women looking for intimacy and love through online dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, and Match.com, wouldn't it be more effective to find a match online?
When it comes to ditching matchmakers, there are two major problems: time, and knowledge.
Yes, there's a variety of people on dating apps but the time that it would take to swipe, match, get ghosted, recover, talk more, and then set up a date just doesn't make sense for successful people who charge upwards of $5,000 per hour in their normal life.
Secondly, 99% of guys have no clue when it comes to messaging, bio writing, photo selection, and even what to do once you move off the dating app. Just ask any of your single female friends to confirm this.
"I just didn't have the time to be on Tinder all day swiping," Kevin said, "It was a catch 22. Either I wasted time on subpar dates that my Matchmaker would set up, or I'd waste time swiping on dating apps not really even knowing what the hell I was doing. All while I could have been focusing on my business and mission in life."
He Wasn't Alone
This wasn't just a problem that Kevin faced, but Jesse Jhaj did as well. Like Kevin, Jhaj is a self-made millionaire who built his fortune from various tech startups. After exiting both 7 and 8-figure companies, and being an early investor in Bitcoin, Jhaj was set for life… yet "I quickly realized that while I was acquiring wealth, I also had now clue on how to meet and date high-value women. I've tried all the traditional methods of dating and they took up way too much time and money."
Like many other men in Jhaj's position, he hired a luxury matchmaking service that charged him over 5-figures a year to find him love. "They barely gave me any matches, and the few women they did introduce me to were just not my type. It felt like I had just lit $30,000 on fire." While matchmakers are complaining that millionaires are too picky, Jhaj believes that high-value men and women should have incredibly high standards in their dating lives. Thus, he created a company with over 50 employees to solve that problem for himself and others in similar situations.
A Turning Point
It occurred to Jesse that his money could be better spent "cracking the code" to online dating for himself, thus avoiding the dissatisfaction he was having with matchmakers. "I applied the same marketing principles that grew my Y-Combinator backed startup to a multi-million dollar company to online dating... And my dating life changed forever."
This included building a team of dating coaches, building his own proprietary software and the creation of what he and his clients refer to as the Ultimate Dating "Funnel" (a classic marketing term used to describe the process a potential client goes through.)
Jhaj even brought on a co-founder, David Malka, whose unique style of thinking earned him over $5 Million as a professional poker player who later founded a vacation rental fund that now manages over $250 Million in assets around the world.They approached dating as a business, investing over $500,000, and hiring a team of people to help solve online dating once and for all… and they succeeded.
Alex, a millionaire in Silicon Valley, was one of Jhaj's first clients. Within 3 weeks of Jhaj's highly customized dating service, Alex had dates lined up 3 days in a row with women that met his standards. Once word got out about this "Unicorn" system, more and more guys started to reach out. That's when Jesse Jhaj decided to open up the service to anyone... anyone who could afford it, that is.
A Next Century Solution
Matchmakers are becoming outdated in the online dating world. "Besides the fact that they just don't get it, they really can't keep up with the massive potential one can get when you have a salaried and highly experienced team handling your dating for you," Jhaj says. "You can get about 50-100x more high-quality matches than relying on traditional matchmaking services. Couple that with a team of veterans handling communication for you and you have the ultimate winning formula. One of the best feelings in the world is getting an invitation to a wedding from a client who found his fiance through your program. I've even gotten baby photos! Last week, one of my clients in Dallas told me he's leaving because he just got a girlfriend, and when I asked how long the 30-year old had been single he said ‘30 years' - that really made my day."
Matchmakers also have no idea how wealthy men should communicate to find equally high-value women. Jhaj's service is aimed to solve that exact problem with what he teaches as "high-value communication." In other words, helping men communicate without being fake or disingenuous, "which is where most men go wrong, either because their fathers failed them or society failed them."
In fact, in our research, we discovered Matchmakers provide zero training whatsoever on what to do once you get connected with a prospective match… whereas Jesse Jhaj not only provides intensive training but he has 20+ hours of personally made content that is so good most clients watch multiple times.
So what do you get for this new dating service? Jhaj's team oversees all of the monotonous elements of online dating, such as finding photographers and dealing with the dating apps themselves. This allows his "Unicorn clients" to focus on what they are good at, and to leave the heavy lifting of their dating lives in the hands of experts. Then, and only then - does Jesse Jhaj provide personalized, high-touch feedback on how to land dates, what to do on them, and how to communicate and think about women in a healthy way.
Those who are interested in his service, which ranges between $30,000 to $250,000, can start with an application on his website jessejhaj.com.
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